At 28 ...where "every God damn soul feels he / she has a right to come and give me the advice that i shld marry soon else ...the day is not far wen i wud end up with 8 cats and lots of self knitted woolens"........cmon i mean seriously cmon....why do everybody have to make me feel that this state is so so so so pathetic that only 'ek chutki sindoor' can save me ???
Well havent they heard ....every thing happens at the right time with the right person....wat if you always land in situation where you met the right man at the wrong time of your life and vice versa....well am very sacred of the first option!
Marriage has become a target and you need to achieve this real soon ...but y treat this as a target ...I am very good at and with targets ....preciously the reason y i never got into any sales or mktg job ....
Since I was a teenager ...the nosey relatives always gossiped that " ahh she...i tell u she is going to go the prem kore biye way...i have heard she has a chele bondhu " n " my daughter is lokkhi ...doesnt hang out with a boy " ...those dear relatives now haunt my life with Qs like " y dont u get urself a bf....you have such good male frens...y nt one of them " ...i feel like screaming " hello people ....decide ! wat do u expect from me "
First it was who scored better in exams ....then which college ...then came how much starting salary ...and now its the 'husband trophy' ....who scored better brownie points over whom !!
Every family has a Mrs Bennett ...in form of Ma/ Mashi/Pishi/ Kaki /Jethi /Boudi ...the list is endless....I guess everybody has this innate urge to always give advice ....try to behave the 'i know it all ' and the 'bolechillum na ami aageyi' each one comes with a better advice
I hope my dear Ma doesnt get to read this...and neither does my Sasuri Maa.....
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